June 9, 2013
One week down and many more to go! I think I have gotten
over the initial shock of when I am living and the conditions. Now, I can write
about all of the positive and wonderful experiences I am having here because
there are many and they definitely outweigh the negatives that I spoke about in
earlier posts.
Today we went to a local church and attended Mass. There are
at least three local Catholic Churches around my town and close by. People here
love their religion and they love their Lord. The church was a little brick
building. They bring in the pews and kneelers every Sunday for mass. Every
other day the church is like an empty space. But when it is filled with pews
and kneelers and people and children and priest the little brick church comes
alive to be the most spectacular mass I have ever been to. The priest, who is a
Salesian and who works with me at my school and youth group, said mass in their
African language called Zulu. Everyone sang and responded in Zulu. The COOLEST
part was that I could follow along without skipping a beat! I knew what prayers
and responses were being said and what songs were being sung and I could
receive communion. To be a complete outsider, 9000 miles away from my own
church and speaking a totally different language, I have never felt more a part
of the mass before. The mass took 2 hours because of their songs. It was the
most beautiful soul/gospel music I have ever heard. I could sing along with
them in English. Then they would start dancing in the isles and waving their
hands in the air. It was awesome! The children sat together in the front 2 rows
and followed along, sang and danced with everyone. They didn’t need a “cry
room” or to be taken out for being distracting. Mass and church is a special
and important place to them and they were just as a part of it as the rest of
the congregation.
UNIVERSAL: My new
favorite part of being part of the Catholic Church. There are so many things
that I love about it, but being here in Africa and participating in today’s
mass, I have a great appreciation for the beautiful thing that is the Catholic
Church’s universality. It is what sets us apart from so many others…no matter
where you go in the world; the mass is always the same. You go into Mass and
instantly become one with everyone there. It’s like home (and here come the
tears). You feel safe knowing that you are just as close to God and your church
and your beliefs as you were back at home, half way around the world.
After mass we have Sunday lunch at the sister’s house. It is
our one hot meal of the day (like every other day, we usually get one hot meal
a day, at their house). The new volunteers from Ireland finally arrived and
joined us for lunch. They two girls are living with us and the boy is living
with the Salesian priests and brothers in their house down the road. Now, its 6
girls living in our house representing 4 different countries. We can all speak English
but with different accents. It’s really fascinating speaking with them and
learning about where they come from and their cultures and life at home.
After we had taken long afternoon naps (which is vital for
me because I have not gotten used to the time difference yet so I’m wide awake
most nights) my roommate Chrissy and I sat at our kitchen table and had a great
convo. I learned from this convo exactly how different I am from these other
girls, besides the fact that we are from different countries. I am speaking
more about our life journeys and what brought us to South Africa. I am the only
one out of the 6 of us, who never dreamed of visiting, much less living, in
Africa. Like I had mentioned in my very first post back in April (see April
post if you haven’t read it), Africa chose me. I did not choose Africa. The
other girls here and mostly Chrissy, have dreamed about visiting, seeing or
living in Africa. Chrissy majors in international social work because she wants
to be a social worker in Africa someday. She spent a semester in Ghana living
and working with the people there. She has a love and deep fascination for all things
African. It’s very inspiring how passionate she is about her work an about Africa.
I, on the other hand, had no initial interest of visiting, seeing or living in
Africa. Chrissy and I were discussing those differences we had and I started to
feel bad for not having the deep desire to come here. So I began to doubt
myself for a minute. Am I in the right place? Should I have gone somewhere that
I really desired and hoped to be living or visiting? Am I just being overly
ambitious or being cliché for coming to serve in a poor town in South Africa? Isn’t
it too soon to be doubting things? I still have 7 months to go!! All I can do
really to keep my own peace about my presence here is to keep reassuring myself
(and thanks to the help from all of my supportive family and friends) that this
is where God placed me and I am simply answering His call to serve here. It was
never in my plan or my dreams and that’s ok. If anything it was part of God’s
plan to take me out of my life in the States where I planned and micromanaged
every aspect of my life. I think He is trying to show me how wonderful a life
can be when you let go of control and simply just live and enagage in the
moment you are in and appreiciate the NOW, instead of worrying about the
future.
I am not any less than the other volunteers here. It just
makes my circumstances and journey a little different. Right?
When I leave here, though, I hope to travel to a few places
where I would like to visit while I’m out of the States. Sr. Giovanna who is a
Salesain sister, who I work with, is from Italy and tells me about how
wonderful it is and that Noto and Sicily are spectacular places to visit. The Salesian
sisters have a community there where I could stay and work while visiting. Only
time will tell what I will be doing, though. I just continue to pray for
guidance and peace. I know that God will lead me on the path I am supposed to
be on whether that is more traveling and volunteering or a life teaching in the
States OR anything else?!!! I just know I’m
in the right place at the right time and it feels good (minus the cold weather
and the lack of heat in any building in my town, that doesn’t feel too good!).
I came across a beautiful quote the other day and it relates
to my life here in SA and my April blog post about my “journey to get to this
journey”. I read this at night. Its comforting.
“Your
journey has molded you for your greater good, and it’s exactly what you needed
it to be. Don’t think that you have lost time. It took each and every situation
you have encountered to bring you to the now. And the now is right on time” –Asha Tyson
Rachel,
ReplyDeleteSomething in your post that resonates with me personally is your mention of "being in the right place at the right time" and living in the present.
As humans I feel that we tend to live in the past or in the future at the expense of the present. Your post gives evidence to the beauty of living in the present and how God's plan for us allows us to acheive the peace that comes along with "presence".
Thank you for sharing your experience as I feel that it give others, or at least I can speak for myself, an increased faith in God's plan for each and every one of us.
Much Love,
Emily Godsey